Closing, minimise and change size buttons

[RobSeegel]

You also see the suspend option when focus leaves the window after clicking in some area outside the window.

I think the current confirmation prompt for quitting is fine, other than being a little over-sized. Please do not have the red button simply close the window. I *hate* applications that do that - at least those applications that don't use multiple windows.

I suppose I'm not opposed to seeing the additional button in the quit prompt, though in some cases it will not be applicable.